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GAFCON—the statement, the responses

GAFCON—the 2008 Global Anglican Future Conference—comprises a group of conservative Anglicans who, in words from their Web site,  represent "a spiritual movement to preserve and promote the truth and power of the gospel of salvation in Jesus Christ as we Anglicans have received it." They met in Jerusalem from June 22 through June 29, "to outline the mission imperatives for the next 25 years for orthodox Anglicans."

Responses to GAFCON
(full text)

From the Archbishop of Canterbury - www.episcopalchurch.org/79901_98433_ENG_HTM.htm

From the Presiding Bishop - www.episcopalchurch.org/79901_98450_ENG_HTM.htm

At the conclusion of the conference they issued a " Statement on the Global Anglican Future,", available here www.episcopalchurch.org/79901_98355_ENG_HTM.htm, that announced the launch of a Fellowship of Confessing Anglicans and the formation of a Primates Council to create "structures to lead and support the Church." The statement also included a 14-point "Jerusalem Declaration" detailing the group's principles and beliefs and declaring that the group does "not accept that Anglican identity is determined necessarily through recognition by the Archbishop of Canterbury."

The statement as reported by Episcopal News Service is here, www.episcopalchurch.org/79901_98355_ENG_HTM.htm.

Archbishop of Canterbury calls conservative Anglicans' proposals "problematic"

Presiding Bishop says "Anglicanism has always been broader than some find comfortable"

By Matthew Davies, June 30, 2008

"I believe that it is wrong to assume we are now so far apart that all those outside the GAFCON network are simply proclaiming another gospel. This is not the case; it is not the experience of millions of faithful and biblically focused Anglicans in every province. What is true is that, on all sides of our controversies, slogans, misrepresentations and caricatures abound. And they need to be challenged in the name of the respect and patience we owe to each other in Jesus Christ."

—Archbishop of Canterbury Rowan Williams

[Episcopal News Service] Describing their proposals as "problematic in all sorts of ways," Archbishop of Canterbury Rowan Williams responded here, www.episcopalchurch.org/79901_98433_ENG_HTM.htm, June 30 to a statement released by a group of conservative Anglicans that announced a new movement to uphold traditional Anglicanism within the Communion's structures rather than to break away from it.

The announcement that the Fellowship of Confessing Anglicans had been launched came in a statement released at the conclusion of the June 22-29 Global Anglican Future Conference, www.gafcon.org, (GAFCON) meeting in Jerusalem, where more than 1,100 conservative Anglicans, including some 280 bishops, gathered to discuss the future shape of Anglicanism.

Also on June 30, Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori said "much of the Anglican world must be lamenting the latest emission from GAFCON", here www.episcopalchurch.org/79901_98450_ENG_HTM.htm.

"Anglicanism has always been broader than some find comfortable," her statement continued. "This [GAFCON] statement does not represent the end of Anglicanism, merely another chapter in a centuries-old struggle for dominance by those who consider themselves the only true believers. Anglicans will continue to worship God in their churches, serve the hungry, and needy in their communities, and build missional relationships with others across the globe, despite the desire of a few leaders to narrow the influence of the gospel.

"We look forward to the opportunities of the Lambeth Conference for constructive conversation, inspired prayer, and relational encounters."

While some have described GAFCON as a divisive event and a rival to the 2008 Lambeth Conference, www.lambethconference.org/index.cfm, the final statement says the meeting was called "in a sense of urgency that a false gospel has so paralysed the Anglican Communion that this crisis must be addressed."

Read it all here www.episcopalchurch.org/79901_98458_ENG_HTM.htm.

ERD emergency assistance continues, to the Midwest and the world

Visit www.er-d.org to help.

Download bulletin inserts about current relief efforts here www.er-d.org/BulletinInsertsCT/.

In the Midwest

Episcopal Relief & Development is providing emergency assistance to communities devastated by flooding across the Midwest.

The damage to infrastructure and the agricultural sector is severe. In some areas, entire towns have been completely inundated, their past existence confirmed only by a lone church steeple poking above the water line. Hundreds of thousands of acres of crops have been destroyed. Early estimates concluded that the floods inflicted up to $1.5 billion in damage to Iowa’s agricultural sector alone.

Episcopal Relief & Development is responding to the needs of flood victims in the Dioceses of Iowa, Milwaukee, Fond du Lac, and Indianapolis. The organization is continually standing by to provide assistance in other locations and other dioceses as the need arises.

“We hold in prayer all who are impacted by the flooding, all who are working tirelessly to prevent further flooding, and all who stand together to care for these people and communities as the waters recede,” says Abagail Nelson, Senior Vice President for Programs at Episcopal Relief & Development.

Please make an immediate contribution to relive the suffering of families impacted by flooding in the Midwest. To make a donation to Episcopal Relief & Development’s “Midwest Flood Fund” online at www.er-d.org/OnlineDonateForm/ , or call 1.800.334.7626, ext. 5129. Gifts can be mailed to: Episcopal Relief & Development “Midwest Flood Fund” P.O. Box 7058, Merrifield, VA 22116-7058.

And beyond

Follow these links to learn about some current ERD relief efforts throughout the world

  • http://www.er-d.org/ERDRespondstodisastersinasia/
  • http://www.er-d.org/ERDRespondstoFloodsintheMidwest/
  • http://www.er-d.org/ERDRespondsFloods/
  • http://www.er-d.org/ERDRespondsSudan/
  • http://www.er-d.org/ERDRespondsStormArthur/

Visit www.er-d.org to donate to ERD.

Diocesan News

The Rev. Harry E. “Pop” Lawhon, rector emeritus of Grace, Camden, dies at 89

The Rev. "Pop" Lawhon in a favorite rocking chair at Gravatt

The Rev. Harry Ernest Lawhon, Jr., died in Camden on June 17 following a battle with cancer. A memorial service was held on June 21 at Grace Church, Camden, where Fr. Lawhon had served as rector for nearly a quarter century. The Rt. Rev. Dorsey F. Henderson, Jr., presided; the homilist was the Rev. William M. “Scotty” Brock of St. Michael and All Angels’, Savannah, Georgia.

Fr. Lawhon, who was born in Birmingham, Alabama, was a graduate of Virginia Theological Seminary. Prior to become rector of Grace Church, Camden, he served in Upper South Carolina at the  Church of Our Saviour in Trenton and at Trinity Church in Edgefield.

Among his many other ministries, he was a fervent and lifelong supporter of Gravatt, having served as chair of the Camp Gravatt Commission and spent many summers as chaplain and camp director at Gravatt .

For many, Fr. Lawhon was Upper SC's "most-unforgettable character."  He will be missed, in so many ways..

Memorials to Fr. Lawhon may be made to the Bishop Gravatt Center (Chapel of the Transfiguration Fund), Grace Church, Camden, or Church of the Ascension, Hagood, S.C.
 

James Edward Neuburger ordained to the priesthood at St. Mary's, Columbia, June 25

 
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On June 25, at St. Mary's, Columbia, Bishop Henderson ordained Upper SC's newest priest, the Rev. James Edward Neuburger. The Rev. C. Christopher Clements, assisting priest at St. Mary's, preached. In the photo at left St. Mary's rector the Rev. Blaney Pridgen receives a blessing from the newly ordained.

 

 

Canon George Chassey presides at Air Force memorial service

Canon Chassey at the 9th Air Force Association Convention, May, 2008

In late May, in St. Louis, the Rev. Canon George I. Chassey attended the Ninth Air Force Association Convention, for which he served as chaplain. On May 27 he conducted a memorial service for those who had died during the previous year. He had earlier presided at several such services, including memorials at National Cathedral and the Air Force Academy Chapel.

View the order of service and read his remarks in St. Louis here, www.edusc.org/e-DUSCNewsletter/070308/Images/CanonChasseyRemarks.pdf.

During World War II, Canon Chassey was a crew chief on a P51 Mustang Fighter plane. After service in World War II, Chassey went to seminary, became an Episcopal priest, and eventually canon for administration in the Diocese of Upper South Carolina. Canon Chassey retired in 1989. He and his wife Mary live in West Columbia.  





Upper South Carolinians attend national "Nuevo Amanecer" conference on Hispanic and Latino ministry

[From an Episcopal News Service story by Nan Ross]

Third to the right of the Presiding Bishop is the Rev. Fred Gonzalez; behind him, the Rev. Dn Ann Pilat, both of whom serve at St. Mary's, Columbia. (Photo: Bill Monk/Episcopal Media Center)

An Episcopal Church conference on Hispanic and Latino ministry, from June 30 through July 3, near Atlanta gathered more than 200 people from diverse Spanish-speaking communities in eight countries to share in the challenges and blessings of their ministries and chart a course for continued growth. Among the participants were two of our own, the Rev. Fred Gonzalez and the Rev. Deacon Ann Pilat, both active in the ever-growing Hispanic ministries at St. Mary's, Columbia.

 

"A New Dawn—Nuevo Amanecer—Together We Grow and Are Strengthened," represents the first time in six years that Episcopalians engaged in Hispanic and Latino ministries have come together. The entire program was offered in Spanish, with English translation available throughout.

Read the complete ENS story here www.episcopalchurch.org/79901_98512_ENG_HTM.htm.

 

 

Transformation on the way—new Upper SC Web site to be launched September 2

Our diocesan Web site, www.edusc.org, will have a whole new look come Tuesday, September 2. Designed to reflect the commission structure of the diocese, the new site will offer information and contact e-mails for every Upper SC group and ministry, along with policies, forms, registration venues, links and resources of many kinds. There'll be a church finder that's cutting edge, and a searchable calendar of everything that's going on in our diocese. And, yes, no more dancing menu! We're betting you're gonna love it!

The road to General Convention '09

Upper SC deputation attends preparatory synod in June

From June 4 through 6 Upper SC's deputation to General Convention began to prepare for the big event by  attending the Province IV Synod meeting Kanuga. The theme for meeting was "Partners in the Spirit: Mutually Encouraged by Each Other's Faith, " and featured speakers included  the Rev. Charles Fulton, president of the Episcopal Church Building Fund (ECBF); the Rev. Margaret Rose, director of the Center for Mission Leadership; and the Rev. Isaias Rodriquez, Province IV Hispanic Ministries network coordinator.

Pictured above are lay deputies Art Bjontegard, Scooty Burch, and Angela Daniel; Bishop Henderson and clergy deputy the Rev. Fletcher Montgomery. Diocesan canon to the ordinary the Rev. Michael Bullock (far right) accompanied the deputation.

Not pictured are clergy deputies the Very Rev. Dr. Philip C. Linder and the Revs. David Thompson, Calvin Griffin, and Beth Ely (clergy alternate); and lay deputies Belton Zeigler and Reggie Brooker (lay alternate).


Celebration of new ministry, July 10, at St. Andrew's, Greenville—Everyone's invited!!

The Right Reverend Dorsey F. Henderson, Jr., will institute the Reverend John Gilbert Garland III as the 13th Rector of St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church, Greenville, on Thursday, the 10th of July, 2008, The Eve of the Feast of St. Benedict of Nursia, at 7:00 p.m. A reception will follow. Your prayers and presence are requested. (Clergy: White Stoles.)


Still Hopes certified as "Wildlife Habitat" by the National Wildlife Federation

The Still Hopes Retirement Community has been certified as a Wildlife Habitat by the National Wildlife Federation. To receive the certification our campus had to have: plants and feeders as sources of food; clean water source for drinking and bathing; plants and areas that provide shelter from the weather and predators; and  places for wildlife to bear and raise their young.

Three residents who worked  on the wildlife certification for Still Hopes—Anne Beazley, Patsy Black, Mary Alice Beck— with Danny Sanford, executive director

The application also requested a list of plants on the campus, including types of trees and various kinds of plants and wildflowers. Plants that are native to South Carolina are preferred. Also requested was information concerning gardening techniques that help conserve resources.

The application was made by a subcommittee of the Safety / Grounds / Environment Committee, chaired by George Knebel, of the Resident Council. The committee distributed a questionnaire to residents to determine the sources of food and shelter that they provide for wildlife. The totals are not exact, but they show that many of our residents are helping our wildlife.

There are signs at each of the entrances of our campus that designate Still Hopes as a Wildlife Habitat of the National Wildlife Federation.

The committee members look forward to working with the residents and staff in continuing to provide food and shelter for wildlife and in preserving the wet lands area of our campus.  One activity that will be sponsored in the coming year is participation in the annual Great Backyard Bird Count of Cornell University.


Milestones in Haiti

An update from our woman on the ground, Jackie Williams

Christ Church parishioner Jackie Williams oversees the Artisan Center, part of out diocesan ministry at Cange, Haiti, and spends most of her time there. Here are her reflections on the recent pre-school and 6th grade ceremonies.

The pre-school graduation was over the top! Each little girl was outfitted in a gown befitting a bride or debutante. Each little boy was in a tailored navy suit. They recited, gave speeches, sang like seasoned performers. Twenty-two years ago Mme Lafontant, wife of Episcopal priest the Rev. Fritz Lafontant, had as her first "creche" a dozen or so malnourished youngsters on packed earth under a banana bark shelter who were just entrusted to some good souls who wiped their noses and gave them a meal. Now there are three Montesorri-trained teachers and a whole new civilization.
Preschool graduation
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6th-grade grads
 

Sixth grade graduation was equally wonderful. How proud we all are of Raoul Fritz Sauveur, the godson of Grace, Anderson's, Dr. Harry Morse' and me. He was abandoned by his mother at birth. After a year spent in the hospital, a local angel with 5 children of her own adopted him. Then she dropped dead last year, her heart just given out, age 54. With these two strikes against him Raoul has succeeded beyond any expectations. He was the Laureate at graduation!

Seventeen students have passed the extremely difficult French system "Philo" and are prepared for university. This is one generation away from illiteracy. The ceremony was touching: the students marched in one by one to the strains of Pachabel's Canon, each accompanied by a relative. The head of secondary school gave a brief biographical sketch and told of each one's future plans. Here come our doctors, nurses, engineers, agronomists, plus a lawyer and politician (blessings on him if he enters Haitian politics!).

The 86th Diocesan Convention

Business - Celebration - Leadership

October 17 - 18, 2008 


  • Draft agenda, available here http://www.edusc.org/Diocese/Draft Agenda - 86th DC.doc
  • Convention poster , available here http://www.edusc.org/e-DUSCNewsletter/060508/Images/ConventionPoster.pdf

The Columbia Metropolitan Convention Center and the adjacent Hilton Hotel will serve as our site for the two days of Mission and Ministry.  

Friday, October 17th will be focused on the business of the Diocese.  Elections, the Statement of Mission (SOM), possible resolutions and changes to the Constitution and Canons will be the order of the day.  In the evening there will be a grand celebration, complete with the Bishop's Awards recognizing Upper South Carolinians who have made extraordinary contributions to the life and ministry of our diocese.

who should attend? 
Clergy, convention delegates, diocesan commission & committee members,  vestry members,  wardens, leaders in formation for all ages,  leaders in outreach and justice ministries, worship leaders, evangelism and new member ministries  —ALL who want to deepen their knowledge and skills for mission and ministry  and desire to move their congregation into the next steps of growth and discipleship !

On Saturday, October 18th, the Bishop invites all those in various leadership areas of our congregations to come and be energized, empowered, and focused to take on the his "four goals for a seamless transition", www.edusc.org/e-DUSCNewsletter/ 040308/BishopsGoals.shtml.  This will be a time to come together for worship, to share stories of mission and ministry, and learn how each one of our congregations can move forward.  Weaving the Story we all share and the stories of our faith communities will be the Rt. Rev. Charles F. Duvall  Throughout the day he will inspire and challenge us to enter into the story, so that in our leaving we will share it with others.  

Make plans NOW to attend these exciting events! Hotel rooms are going fast! October 17-18 is also weekend of the South Carolina–LSU football game, at home in Columbia. Three hotels have blocked rooms for Diocesan Convention: Hampton Inn, Rodeway Inn, and Comfort Suites.   Although there is no diocesan block of rooms, reservations may also be made at the Hilton Hotel. Full info on making reservations can be downloaded here, www.edusc.org/e-DUSCNewsletter/022108/Images/86thConventionHotels.pdf. Please pay close attention to release and cancellation dates when making your reservations.

 

Keep your eyes on the Millennium Development Goals (MDGs)

Join the Virtual March for the MDGs

On Thursday, July 24, in concert with the 2008 Lambeth Conference, more than 600 Anglican bishops, their spouses and other faith leaders from around the United Kingdom will march through central London on a Walk of Witness—a symbolic moment of solidarity for the fulfillment of the MDGs to reflect to the world God's desire for justice and concern for the poor.

Now, you can "march" with the bishops—online and in your congregation. 

The Episcopal Public Policy Network, www.eppn.org, and Episcopalians for Global Reconciliation, www.e4gr.org  are sponsoring a "Virtual March for the MDGs, www.e4gr.org/virtualmarch.html" (www.mdgmarch.org) to coincide with the Lambeth Conference walk.  The aim is the same.  Only instead of walking through the streets of London, we'll be sending e-mails into Congressional inboxes in Washington, D.C.  asking our leaders to share our commitment to the MDGs and making poverty history.

Read more here www.e4gr.org/virtualmarch.html, and get on board!

We CAN make extreme global poverty history by 2015!

Upcoming Events

St. Timothy’s, Columbia, 2008 summer music series now under way

Next concert July 15

Please join the congregation of St. Timothy's, Columbia, for their concert series, "A Little Summer Music," which began June 17.

Concerts are approximately 30 minutes in length and begin at 12 noon in the sanctuary. Box lunches are available for $7.50 by calling to make a reservation. Reservations must be made by the the Monday morning before the concert.

For questions or to make reservations, please contact, St. Timothy’s Episcopal, 803.414.7803. St. Timothy's Church is located in the heart of downtown Columbia behind the governor's mansion at 900 Calhoun St . Columbia , SC 29201. Ddownload a flyer here, www.edusc.org/e-DUSCNewsletter/050108/ Images/StTimsConcert2008TemplateColumbiaVB.pdf, with the concert schedule.

Concert schedule

July 15 Alan Weinberg, piano

July 22 Katie Taylor, harp

August 12 “The Three Baritones”
Marc Rattray, Jacob Will, Hal MacIntosh

At Augusta's Convent of St. Helena in July

For additional information, please contact the convent
3042 Eagle Drive, Augusta, GA 30906;  706.798.520; www.osh.org; augustaconvent@comcast.net


July 18-20—A Vacation-Retreat-Workshop with Sr. Carol Andrew, OSH. Come and relax; learn a few new things about the God who loves you so much; the world God creates and enjoys; and yourself, Beloved Child of the Beloved One.

St. Thaddeus', Aiken, presents "Contemporary Music Within Traditional Churches" workshop, August 30

St. Thaddeus' Episcopal Church of Aiken is honored to sponsor a musicians' workshop entitled "Contemporary Music for Traditional Churches" that will feature Robin Mark. This workshop is designed for church musicians (1) who want to begin to include contemporary Christian music in their existing services, (2) those who want to begin a contemporary music service, and (3) those who already use contemporary music within a traditional church setting.

Robin Mark is an Irish singer and song writer from Belfast whose worship and praise songs are often sung in traditional and contemporary churches. Some of his most famous songs include "Days of Elijah," "In the Beauty of Holiness," and "Take Us to the River." He has published 13 albums and has won many awards in the UK, Canada, and the United States. Those who have been to Cursillo are very familiar with his songs.

The date of the workshop is August 30, 2008, and it will be held at St. Thaddeus', Aiken. Please forward this information to anyone interested in attending this exciting and timely workshop. Download the flyers for publication in your congregation here, www.edusc.org/e-DUSCNewsletter/070308/Images/ MusiciansWorkshop.pdf. Please contact Gregory MacDougall with any questions at macdou_g@earthlink.net or 803.646.3948.

Lutheran Theological Seminary to offer Career Crossroads seminar, September 12-14

Are you or is someone you know going through a career crisis? Many people are unhappy in their vocation and don't know how to find the work that fits their gifts and mission in life. Career Crossroads is a spiritual retreat which will help such people.

For more information, please contact Sandra Holland, associate director for ministry, at 803.461.3263 or sandrah@ltss.edu . Download the seminar brochure here.

“Moving toward Wholeness Conference,” October 16-19 in Browns Summit, NC

Episcopal priest the Very Rev. J. Pittman McGehee will be a featured speaker

Episcopal priest the Very Rev. J. Pittman McGehee, D.D., who served for 11 years as dean of Christ Church Cathedral in Houston, will be one of the featured presenters at the "Moving Toward Wholeness" conference, www.journeyconferences.com/conferenceinformation.htm, to be held at The Summit Conference Center, http://ils.unc.edu/parkproject/TheSummit/,in Browns Summit, North Carolina, October 16-19, 2008.

The conference will focus on the dialogue between the psychology of Carl Jung and the spiritual experiences at the heart of Christianity and other faiths through lectures, workshops, morning Eucharist, dialogue, special events and periods of solitude. McGehee will explore the relation between love and power as we approach the Fall 2008 elections.

The Very Rev. J. Pittman McGehee

In 1991, he became the director of the Institute for the Advancement of Psychology and Spirituality. A Jungian analyst and distinguished lecturer and speaker in the fields of psychology and religion, he is also an author, book reviewer and an award-winning published poet.

Along with McGehee, two other Jungian analysts will be offering featured presentations. There will be 16 workshops led by Jungian analysts and other highly qualified professionals. Register as soon as possible to receive the best discount.

For more information, visit www.journeyconferences.com.



Opportunities

Holy Cross, Simpsonville, seeks part-time Christian formation director

Holy Cross, Simpsonville, is seeking a part-time Christian formation director.  Primary responsibilities include oversight of nursery, nursery personnel and all children’s ministries within the parish; providing twice-monthly chapel service;  planning and implementation of children’s programs; recruiting and training volunteers; and working closely with program council and vestry in relation to policies, budgets, schedules, and facilities. The complete job description is available on the diocesan Web site at www.edusc.org/e-DUSCNewsletter/061908/Images/HolyCross.pdf.

The ideal candidate for this position is a person with strong communication and leadership skills who works well with people. Bachelor’s degree and experience working with children preferred.  Please send resume to PO Box 187, Simpsonville, SC 29681, or e-mail rector@holycrossep.org.  For more information, visit www.holycrossep.org or call 864.967.7470.

Bishop Gravatt Center in need of communion linens

The Bishop Gravatt Center is in need of communion linens, including corporals, purificators, and palls.  If you have any of these available, please contact Gravatt executive director, Lauri Yeargin, bishopgravatt@wildblue.net, 803.648.1817.

Clergy News

Calendar

July 2 Deans & lay wardens quarterly meeting
July 13 Piedmont Convocation meeting, 2 PM, St. Margaret's
July 20 Midlands Convocation meeting (Details TBA)
July 27

Gravatt Convocation meeting, 2:30 PM, All Saints'

August 3 Catawba Convocation meeting, 3 PM, St. Matthias'
September 2 Launce of the new and enhanced, www.edusc.org
September 14 Piedmont Convocation meeting, St. Christopher's
Midlands Convocation meeting (TBA)
September 15-17 Fall Clergy Conference
September 21 Catawba Convocation meeting, 3 PM, Christ Church, Lancaster
September 28 Gravatt Convocation meeting, 2:30 PM, Our Savior
October 4 Continuing Education Day
October 15 Deans & lay wardens quarterly meeting
October 17 86th Diocesan Convention business session
October 18

86th Diocesan Convention—Leadership Conference
December 11 New rector / vicar orientation



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


In the Moment—One Pilgrim's Attempt to Be Present

By Amy Sander Montanez, D. Min.


Amy Sander Montanez is a writer, teacher, therapist, retreat leader, and spiritual director who attends Trinity Cathedral, Columbia. She is the winner of two 2008 Polly Bond Awards for Devotional / Inspirational Writing from Episcopal Communicators You can access an archive with her award-winning reflections on the diocesan Web site at www.edusc.org/ArchiveElectronic/.


Who do you hang with?

So much of what’s true in life seems to have a paradoxical nature, doesn’t it? Like a hologram, you can look at it one way and see a very clear image, and then shift it just slightly and see a completely different picture. Over and over I am struck with the multifacetedness of most things, especially the political, philosophical, theoretical, psychological, and theological.

My daughter and I have been discussing a statement that has come into both of our lives in the last year. It has several modifications, but basically it goes something like this. “You are only as good as the people you surround yourself with.” It’s been said to us by business associates, anxious boyfriends, mentors, and yoga teachers, not to mention every aspect of popular culture. I am sure I said it to her at some point in her adolescence, and I suspect it was probably said to me at the same point in my development.

So I hold the hologram up and I see it from that perspective. When we surround ourselves with good people, people who have the same moral and ethical standards we have, people who are striving for the same things in life, we are helping ourselves in so many ways. We lessen the temptations that could come our way. The positive energy of others can impact us in positive ways. The network of people like this is beneficial. We have others we can call on to support and help us. We spend less time and energy having to define and hold on to ourselves. There is less drama. In family and marital matters, it really helps. A friend of mine told me her mentor said to “Surround yourself with stars.” It just makes life a lot easier. It makes a lot of sense. I’ve experienced it. It works.

And then there’s Jesus. And then the hologram looks different. At first glance, Jesus doesn’t seem to be paying much attention to the positive qualities of those he chose to hang around with. He certainly wasn’t surrounding himself with “stars.” The apostle Peter was impulsive and impetuous, not to mention the fact that in the end he was a lousy friend. Thomas couldn’t really decide how he felt about Jesus. Matthew was a tax collector and seemed to have a rather rigid personality. Jesus also spent a good deal of time with women and children who weren’t exactly considered status friends. He hung out with lepers and a Samaritan women who was living with a man out of wedlock, and he ate dinner wherever they would feed him. He didn’t seem at all interested in protecting his moral and ethical standards, nor did he seem interested in what others could do for him. If Jesus was “only as good as the people he surrounded himself with,” he wouldn’t be our model and teacher. He wouldn’t be Jesus the Christ.

So what makes Jesus different? I am thinking it has a lot to do with how much time he spent in prayer, in communion with God. And by spending this kind of time, he must have been centered and grounded in a way most of us don’t experience. It didn’t matter who he was with, he knew who he was. He knew that the values of the popular culture wouldn’t make him happy, would not bring him peace, nor would they bring about God’s reality (the kingdom of God) which he so zealously wanted to bring to us. He knew in his innermost being what was really important, what mattered and was going to matter, and he carried this wisdom with him to those he hung around with. At the very end of his earthly life, he knew that death was not the worst thing that could happen. Selling his soul would be worse. Being someone he was not, would be worse.

And so, holding the hologram up one way, we probably get some very important needed support from hanging around the kind of people we are and want to be. Looking at it that way, we are who we hang out with. Maybe Jesus got all he needed from hanging around God. And just as Jesus did, we need to hang around God a lot, too. When we are centered and grounded in God, we can branch out and stand sure in what we believe and who we are. When we spend time in prayer and contemplation, when we retreat from the popular culture and let ourselves be reminded of what is really important, then we can turn and look at the hologram another way. When we know who we are, we can hang out with all kinds of people, holding steady and fast to the truth as we know it. Then we are a light to those not like us. Then we aren’t afraid of those who are different from us, who society tells us are unclean or unimportant or less than us. Then we can be like Jesus the Christ, sure of who we are and able to carry that assuredness with us.

© 2008 Amy Sander Montanez