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Diocesan News

The consents are in for the Bishop-Elect!

The Rev. W. Andrew Waldo has received the requisite number of consents from diocesan bishops and Standing Committees. Next step is his ordination and consecration as the eighth bishop of Upper South Carolina on May 22 at Christ Church, Greenville.

While bishops in The Episcopal Church are elected on the local level, they are not approved to serve as bishops until after the completion of a consent process by the leaders of rest of the Church, followed by ordination.

Upon election, the successful candidate is a Bishop-Elect. Following some procedural matters including examinations, formal notices are then sent to bishops with jurisdiction (diocesan bishops only) with separate notices to the standing committees of each of the dioceses in The Episcopal Church. These notices require their own actions and signatures.

In order for a Bishop-Elect to become a bishop, Canon III.11.4 (a) of The Episcopal Church mandates that a majority of diocesan bishops AND a majority of diocesan standing committees must consent to the Bishop-Elect's ordination as bishop. These actions - done separately - must be completed within 120 days from the day notice of the election was sent to the proper parties.

If the Bishop-Elect receives a majority (at least 50% plus 1) of consents from the diocesan bishops as well as a majority from the standing committees, the Bishop-Elect is one step closer. Following a successful consent process, ordination and celebration are in order.


Anonymous donor to match gifts made to diocesan Bread & Water Campaign for Haiti

The Episcopal church at Cange serves as a hospital ward for many in need of care following the recent earthquake.

A member of our diocese has generously agreed to match dollar for dollar contributions made to the diocesan Gifts of Bread & Water Fund, established to ensure the viability of the water supply and expand our ministries in Cange, Haiti.  

The crisis in Haiti has not passed. The need immediately to complete our work to replace the worn-out water system at Cange has become even more critical as those in need of emergency health care due to the earthquake, children left orphaned, and other refugees from Port au Prince have flooded into Cange, putting a tremendous strain on an already inadequate and contaminated water system.  

Additionally the need for the vocational school to begin classes has been accentuated by the population growth and the lack of employment. The demand for the increased production of our nutritional products to fight malnutrition has also grown dramatically.

You now have a chance to make a tremendous difference in the lives of our friends in Haiti, thanks to the generosity of one Upper South Carolinian who has offered to match your contributions to the Bread and Water Fund, up to $200,000. You now have the opportunity to double the effect of your gift by contributing now.

Donations can be made online at www.edusc.org or by snail-mail (to EDUSC, 1115 Marion Street, Columbia, 29201). Please designate checks to the Gifts of Bread and Water and make them to the Diocese of Upper South Carolina. God has given us this unique opportunity to "act in the world as the body of Christ" and to change lives.

For more information, please contact Bread & Water Fund chair, Earl Burch, eburch@innova.net.   


Learn more about
our ministries in Haiti

Invite a speaker to your congregation to talk about diocesan work in Haiti.

Presentations can be tailor-made for any group, special interest, or timeframe. Topics might include the history of our relationship with Cange; info on medical, agricultural, and other ministries; the recent earthquake and after effects; the diocesan Gifts of Bread and Water Campaign. Talks will be informative, entertaining, interesting and inspirational, and can be scheduled for any day of the week at any time.

Please contact Earl Burch, 864.639.4918, to arrange for a speaker.

 


Diocesan grants available for domestic, international outreach

Matthew 25 grants support outreach in local communities;  MDG grants focus on international projects

Matthew 25 grants
Matthew 25 grants support outreach programs in congregations and convocations of the diocese that are serving these least of Jesus’ family in our own communities. The programs supported and nurtured by Matthew 25 grants are the work of Upper South Carolinians striving to manifest the reality of God’s kingdom in their local communities.

Congregations and convocations are invited to apply for grants to be made during 2010. Information, guidelines, and application forms are available on the diocesan Web site www.edusc.org, under "Ministries," "Mission & Outreach," "Matthew 25."

For additional information on the grant process, please contact Matthew 25 chair, the Rev. Timothy Ervolina, 803.929.1000.

The Matthew 25 Committee, which administers the grants, draws its name and vision from the words of our Lord in the Gospel of Matthew 25:40: "Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me." The committee is made up of the Council of Deacons, who serve on it as part of their diaconal ministry, along with the lay wardens of each diocesan convocation.


MDG grants
Congregations in the Diocese of Upper South Carolina are invited to apply for funding to support projects that focus on one or more of the Millennium Development Goals devoted to international outreach. Funding will come from a portion of the 0.7% set aside by the Diocese in the Statement of Mission (SOM).

The diocesan Commission on the Anglican Communion and International Concerns, charged with oversight of the grant process, encourages proposals inspiring the participation of congregations in the diocese in long-term projects that can ultimately be sustained by the community served. Particularly encouraged are projects that serve to nurture and promote self-sufficiency.

Applications should be submitted to the diocesan Commission on the Anglican Communion and International Concerns and will be referred to the MDG subcommittee for review and recommendation for final approval by the Commission as a whole.

General guidelines:

• Project must address one or more of the Millennium Development Goals
• Fiscal accountability of organization with which funds may be shared
• Yearly report of project and progress
• Timeline and desired outcomes

The Commission will oversee two grant cycles. All application material must be submitted by January 1 or July 1. Applicants are urged to submit requests well ahead of the time the money will be needed. Grant award will be announced in March and October by the Commission.

Applicants may be asked to provide additional information after submission. Written notification of grants awarded or denied will be made following final evaluation of the proposal. All materials are promptly acknowledged upon receipt, and become the property of the Diocese of Upper South Carolina. More information and grant application forms are available on the diocesan Web site, www.edusc.org, by following links to "Ministries," "Outreach," and "Millennium Development  Goals."


Upcoming Events

Eucharistic Visitor training days at Church of the Cross, Columbia, February 27

Training for Eucharistic Visitors will be offered at Church of the Cross, Columbia, on Saturday, February 27. Please contact the church for additional information, 803.238.0206. Please note that in order to serve as a Eucharistic Visitor Safe Church Training is also required. Contact Roslyn Hook, 803.771.7800,  at Diocesan House for information on scheduled Safe Church Trainings.


Grace, Camden, to offer Lenten series on transformation, February 24-March 24

Grace Church, Camden, will offer a Wednesday evening  Lenten lecture series on the theme of transformation,  February 24 - March 24. Each session begins at 6:30 p.m. with a light supper, and childcare is available. Topics and guest speakers are as follows:

February 24: The Rev. Dr. Virginia Barfield, Dean, Lutheran Theological Southern Seminary, Columbia. Topic: Forgiveness.

March 3: The Rev. Charles Duvall, Bishop Retired, Diocese of Central Gulf Coast. Topic: Guilt/Shame.

March 10: The Rev. Eugene C. Rollins, Liberty Hill Presbyterian Church. Topic: Joy.

March 17: The Rev. Dr. Philip Whitehead, Rector Emeritus, St. Michael & All Angels', Columbia. Topic: Anger.

March 24: Amy Montanez, D. Min. Topic: Surrender


Please call Grace Church to reserve a seat for dinner,803.432.7621.


Free Winter/Spring Concert Series at Still Hopes, West Columbia, begins February 25

The free Winter/Spring Concert Series at Still Hopes Episcopal Retirement Community in West Columbia will begin on Thursday, February 5, at 7:30 p.m. The complete schedule is as follows.

Charles Fugo, piano
Thursday, February 25, 7:30 p.m.

Marina Lomazov & Joseph Rackers, piano duo
Thursday, March 4, 7:30 p.m.

Jacob Will, baritone & Charles Fugo, piano
Thursday, March 18, 7:30 p.m.

Catherine Hazan, violin & Sharon Rattray, piano
Thursday, March 25, 7:30 p.m.

Peter Kilkay, bassoon
Monday, March 29, 7:30 p.m.

Tina Stallard Voice Studio Recital
Sunday, April 11, 4:00 p.m.

Laury Christie, soprano, Christin Owens, soprano &
Elisa Moskovitz, piano
Thursday, May 6, 7:30 p.m.

All concerts are held in the Susan G. Robinson Garden Room. A reception will be held following each evening concert.

For more information contact: Sherry French, Director, Activity Services, Still Hopes Episcopal Retirement Community, 803.739.5015, sfrench@stillhopes.org.  


St. Simon & St. Jude, Irmo, to host Lenten Quiet Day February 27

The St. Mary Magdalene Chapter of the Daughters of the King at St. Simon & St. Jude, Irmo, will host a Lenten Quiet Day on Saturday, February 27, from 8:30 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. A Continental breakfast and lunch will be served. Please call Donna Newton (803.407.0879) or the church office (803.732.0153) to register.

The program for the day is "Art as Innerwork: Kinesthetic Spirituality," led by Mary How and Carrie Graves. This experiential workshop will use finger painting as a method of prayer and meditation and will also explore how bringing mindfulness techniques to your art can enhance your creative process, allowing for a deeper connection in prayer.

Mary How, MA, ATR-BC is an art therapist specializing in the treatment of survivors of trauma and people living with mental illness. Her experience includes teaching mindfulness techniques, helping others heal from the past, and uncovering the creative spirit that lives inside each of us. She believes her greatest gift is inspiring others to embrace their own creativity while uncovering blocks to the creative process.

Carrie Graves is a lifelong Episcopalian and graduate of the Sewanee School of Theology's Education for Ministry program. She is the director of Trinity Cathedral Bookstore in Columbia, as well as office manager of a psychotherapy and spiritual direction practice in Columbia. Her experience includes co-mentoring the Education for Ministry program at St. Martin's-In-The-Fields, Columbia, and attending the Haden Institute's Summer Dream Conference annually since 2003. Believing that inner work is essential to the soul's journey, she is passionate about bringing dream work, creativity, and theological education into church life to help others understand, develop, and live honoring the Christ within themselves and others.  


St. Timothy's, Columbia, Daughters of the King to sponsor Lenten Quiet Day February 27

The Mary & Martha of Bethany Chapter of the Daughters of the King at St. Timothy’s, Columbia (900 Calhoun Street), will sponsor its 12th Annual Lenten Quiet Day, "Praying with the Saints," on Saturday, February 27, from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Beverly Ingram leads the program about prayer and saints, including St. Francis, Julian of Norwich, Benedict, Teresa of Avila, and others. Lent is a time for reflection, introspection, and spiritual growth. This Quiet Day can be an important part of our spiritual discipline for Lent.

The $10.00 fee provides a continental breakfast and a box lunch. Vegetarian lunches are available. Registration deadline is Monday, February 22. For more information, please contact the church at 803.765.1519 or e-mail daughters@sainttimothyscolumbia.com.


Grace, Anderson, Lenten Lunchtime Concerts begin March 4



Centering Prayer workshop, March 20, at Grace, Camden

Grace Church, Camden, is sponsoring a Centering Prayer Workshop, led by the Rev. Tom Ward, on March 20 from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. The workshop will serve both as an introduction to Centering Prayer for those who know nothing of this practice and as a refresher course for those who have been praying this way for some time. Four Conferences give shape to the day: Prayer as Relationship, the Method of Centering Prayer, the Place of “Thoughts” in Centering Prayer, and Centering Prayer and the Fruits of the Spirit. Two sessions of Centering Prayer are part of the design.

The Rev. Tom Ward been an Episcopal priest for over thirty years, serving parishes in Mississippi and Tennessee; from 1994 through 2005, he was University Chaplain at Sewanee, the University of the South (the one university owned and operated by the Episcopal Church in this country). Tom now focuses on the contemplative dimension of the gospel, teaching centering prayer and leading retreats. He has a special interest in fostering this practice in local congregations in general and in Episcopal parishes in particular. For the past fifteen years Tom has worked closely with Thomas Keating and Contemplative Outreach Ltd, a network which seeks to foster contemplation.

For more information or to register, please contact the church, 803.432.7621. Registration deadline is March 15.  


St. Mary's to present one-man play on the life and ministry of Paul, March 21

At 7 p.m. on March 21, at St. Mary’s, Columbia, assistant rector the Rev. George Roberts will perform his one-man show on the life and ministry of Paul entitled Blessed: An Expression of Faith. The play is approximately forty-five minutes in length and covers much of Paul’s life in flashback, from his persecution of the Church through his conversion to his final journey to Rome as prisoner, before being martyred. Roberts, before entering Holy Orders, was a theatre educator, most recently at the University of South Carolina Upstate. He has been acting professionally since 1990.

The performance is being sponsored by the Christian Formation Ministry at St. Mary’s Episcopal Church. A light soup and muffin supper will be held from 5 to 6:30 p.m., with the performance following. All are invited. Donations will go to the EYC of St. Mary’s planned mission trip, summer of 2011. St. Mary’s is located at 170 St. Andrews Road, Columbia. Please call 803.798.2776 for directions.
 



St. James Center, Greenville, to sponsor March 20 Quiet Day with The Rev. Barbara Crafton

A Spirituality of Joy and Sorrow
A Quiet Day with The Rev. Barbara Crafton
March 20, 2010
9:00-4:30 at St. James Episcopal Church, Greenville

Join the St. James Center for Spiritual Development on March 20 from 9:00-4:30 for a Lenten Quiet Day led by The Rev. Barbara Crafton. Barbara is an Episcopal priest, spiritual director, and author of many books as well as the celebrated “Almost Daily eMo.” The day will begin with registration and coffee from 8:30-9:00. During the day, we will hear several meditations from Barbara and have quiet time for prayer, reflection, or spiritual direction. Lunch is provided as part of the $75 registration as is a copy of one of Barbara’s books. We will end our day with a celebration of the Holy Eucharist. Please register by completing a registration form on the St. James Center website (http://saintjamescenter.org).



Trinity Cathedral to sponsor couples' workshop, March 27

"The Relationship Project: A Day to Invenst in a Healthy, Vibrant, Conscious Connection"

Trinity Cathedral is sponsoring a fun and exciting opportunity for couples! On Saturday, March 27, from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Bonnie Montgomery, Ph. D.,  from St. John’s, Columbia, and Amy Sander Montanez, D.Min, from Trinity Cathedral will lead couples in a day-long workshop exploring the keys to positive, successful relationships.

Couples will take the PeopleMap personality inventory which is designed to increase self-awareness and awareness of one’s partner, and to foster productive communication. Following this, couples will learn research-based habits that create and support successful relationships.

Both Bonnie and Amy have been in private practice for over twenty-five years and have extensive experience in working with couples. The cost for the day, $125 per couple, includes tuition, morning coffee, and lunch. You can have a lot of fun while gaining tools that will increase the health of your relationship. This workshop is not therapy and is not designed for couples in crisis.

To register, please mail your check for $125, made out to Trinity Cathedral and marked at the bottom for Couples' Workshop, along with your names and a phone number by March 21. Trinity Cathedral’s address is 1100 Sumter Street, Columbia, SC 29201. If you have any questions, please call 803.254.5650 and ask for Amy or Carrie. This workshop will be limited to 25 couples so register early!  








Ninth annual Kanuga retreat exploring spiritual link with photography, April 25-30

Explore a spiritual link with photography amid the Blue Ridge Mountains in spring bloom during the ninth annual Kanuga Photography Retreat April 25-30.

Students can examine the close-up world of macro photography, learn to use color like a painter, combine photography with hiking, “see the holy” and transform those insights into digital photographs or explore documentary photography in natural light.

Students will get hands-on lessons from professional photographers Kathy Eyster of Missoula, Montana.; Lydia Goetze of Southwest Harbor, Maine; Jon Kral of Boone, North Carolina.; Robin Smith of Columbia, South Carolina; and Beth Reynolds and Thom Burden of Northfield, Massachusetts. The Rev. Janet Tarbox of Edgefield, South Carolina, will serve as chaplain.

Participants pick one instructor to study with for the week. Class size is limited for individual instruction and lessons can be tailored to all levels of experience. Evening programs allow photographers to network and learn from other instructors. For more information, visit www.kanuga.org or call 828.692.9136.  


Gravatt Bassmaster Fishing Tournament coming up July 31

Sign up your two-person team for the first annual Gravatt Bassmaster Fishing Tournament. This event is a family-friendly so take this opportunity to share the outdoors with youth you care about. Choose to fish from the bank, from a Gravatt canoe, or your own canoe, or you may bring your own boat (trolling motors only). This tournament will be catch and release only. Awards will given in many exciting categories.

Register early as space will fill up quickly. Keep up-to-date with tournament news by calling 803.648.1817 or visiting www.bishopgravatt.org or the Gravatt Environmental Education Program Facebook Fan Page.
 

 

 

Opportunities

Lenten resources available from Episcopal Relief & Development

piscopal Relief & Development (ERD) Sunday is coming up on the first Sunday in Lent, February 21.

To help your congregation prepare for this day and for the Lenten journey, ERD is offering a 2010 Lenten Meditations booklet. Developed by Sister Claire Joy of the Community of the Holy Spirit in New York City, the devotional’s theme is “Healing ourselves and a hurting world.” These daily meditations will encourage, challenge and inspire Episcopalians to reflect on their lives and on what steps they might take to help those who live in need.

Copies of the devotional and additional materials may be ordered for everyone in your congregation by phone or online at www.er-d.org. Please note that orders must be placed by February 8 to ensure they will arrive in time for Ash Wednesday, February 17. Lenten materials are free. All orders are charged a minimum fee for shipping and handling. Large orders or overnight and second-day delivery will incur additional shipping costs. Call Episcopal Books and Resources (EBaR) at 1.800.903.5544.



What Episcopalians Do After Dinner: 500 Favorite & Fabulous Desserts

Good Shepherd, Columbia, offers terrific cookbook!

Looking for that perfect gift? Then you need What Episcopalians Do After Dinner: 500 Favorite & Fabulous Desserts (Second Printing).

We know. We know: You think all church cookbooks are the same -- quaint little collections of Cream of Chicken soup and Cool Whip. Not this one. The gourmets and gourmands of The Church of the Good Shepherd have produced a decadent collection of desserts you'll wonder how you ever lived without, smartly arranged to help you find just the right thing.

You want a chocolate cake? Go to pages 1-30. Got a hankering for a fruit pie? Check out pages 164-184. Or how about something good and gooey? We've got an entire chapter on that.

The chapters are marked by bright, cheerful photographs of desserts lovingly prepared by Good Shepherd parishioners. The book was edited by Good Shepherd's own Cindi Ross Scoppe, associate editor at The State newspaper, who tracked down clarifications for all those not-quite-clear directions and culled more than 600 submissions to eliminate duplicates and near-duplicates, explaining slight variations in notes with the combined recipes.

You'll buy our cookbook for its yummy collection of sinfully delicious delights. You'll treasure it for the notes that accompany most recipes, including Good Shepherd rector Father Lyon's story of the apple pie recipe he developed using fruit that was "borrowed" from the residence of one of his seminary. And no, that's not a typo on the purchase price: We really are offering 343 pages of fabulous recipes for just $10.

Pick up copies of the cookbook at Good Shepherd, 1512 Blanding Street, Columbia, or mail checks for $10 plus $3 shipping and handling for each book.

Mail order to:

The Church of the Good Shepherd Episcopal Church Women
Att: Betty Prudence
1512 Blanding St
Columbia, SC 29201-2907
Phone: 803.779.2960
Fax: 803.771.7227
E-mail: gsepiscae@aol.com.


Church News

Look what's up at St. Barnabas, Jenkinsville

St. Barnabas expands

 

 

St. Barnabas, Jenkinsville, is expanding the church to include an entry vestibule.  Not a traditional narthex, the vestibule will include restrooms as well as facilities for hanging coats and umbrellas, and a water fountain.  Modest though it may be in comparison with other expansions, this is very significant for a small congregation with an average Sunday attendance of seventeen people.  Inclement weather has presented a number of challenges in the past, including a fifty-yard walk to the Parish Hall to restrooms and issues relating to funerals as well.

The project is fully funded.  Although contributions have come from several sources, an out-of-town member, Ms. Annie R. Baten, and her sister, Ms. Dorothy Baten McRae, have given most of the necessary resources.  These faithful women have never forgotten the mission school where they received their education.  St. Barnabas is extremely grateful for their generosity.


 

Clergy News

ERD Sunday, first Sunday in Lent, February 21

By Standing Resolution of the Diocese, and in concert with the custom of the Episcopal Church, the first Sunday in Lent has been designated as Episcopal Relief & Development Sunday. Congregations and individuals are encouraged to support Episcopal Relief & Development's life-saving work through prayer and a special offering that will help heal a hurting world.

Learn more about ERD and ERD Sunday and find resources (including a bulletin insert) for celebrating ERD Sunday at www.er-d.org/erdsunday/.


The DUSC clergy directory wants you!

In preparation for the arrival of Bishop-elect Waldo, we are putting together a clergy photo directory.  The directory will contain contact information, parochial assignment, and a picture of each clergy person in Upper South Carolina.  This will help the bishop-elect put names with faces in his first few months here.  We are requesting you submit a headshot to use for this directory.  (You can use your picture from your church directory.)  If you do not have one, don’t fret.  There will be an opportunity at upcoming clergy retreats to have your picture taken.

You may submit an electronic or hard copy of your photo.  Please send your picture to Bethany Human, 1115 Marion Street, Columbia, SC 29201.  All printed pictures will be returned once they are scanned and put in the database.  If you have any questions about the directory, please contact Bethany Human, 803.771.7800 x 19. 


Calendar

February 21 ERD Sunday
Piedmont Convocation meeting
March 4 Fresh Start, All Saints', Clinton, 9:30 a.m.
March 9 Catawba clericus, Harmony House, noon
March 12-144 Happening #63
April 2 Good Friday offering to the Church in Jerusalem
April 11 Reedy River Convocation meeting
Catawba Convocation meeting
April 12 Catawba clericus meeting, Harmony House, noon
April 9-11 Vocare #5, Gravatt
April 15 Fresh Start, All Saints’, Clinton
April 18 Gravatt Convocation meeting
Midlands Convocation meeting
April 23-25 Jr. High Spring Retreat
April 25 Piedmont Convocation meeting
May 6 Fresh Start, All Saints', Clinton
May 8 Mother's Day Offering (to Still Hopes and Finlay House)
May 11 Catawba clericus, Harmony House, noon
May 22 Consecration of the 8th Bishop of Upper SC, Christ Church, Greenville

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In the Moment—One Pilgrim’s Attempt to Be Present

By Amy Sander Montanez, D. Min.

Just say yes

Years ago I was motivated to start a theatre troupe here in Columbia. It was called “Theatre of Dreams” and was structured after the NYC Theatre of Dreams which I saw perform at the Spoleto Festival in Charleston. Bob Paton, the conceiver and director of the NY troupe agreed to train a local group to be actors in this theatre. Our job involved hearing the nighttime dreams of audience participants and, by using improvisation, acting the dream out as the dreamer watched.

Our first week of training involved predominately acting exercises. A cardinal rule of improv is “just say yes”! When someone starts a motion, movement, or invitation you are to receive it and keep the action going. In other words, if someone hands you a ball, you are to accept it and do something with it. If someone drapes an arm around you, you are to accept it and keep going. If someone calls you Bob, you are to go with that and not stop and say, “Wait, my name isn’t Bob, it’s Susie!” Just say yes, and that keeps the action moving.

Just saying yes, of course, has the potential of taking us out of our comfort zones. I wasn’t planning on going in that direction. You couldn’t mean me accepting that offer, could you? I don’t know how to do that. I am not qualified/certified/trained/educated to do that. Wait, that’s not right, you must have made a big mistake. You’ve got the wrong person.

Several times in my life friends that I love and trust have pulled me out of my comfort zone. One time a friend called me and asked me to perform her wedding ceremony. “ I can’t do that. You need an ordained minister,” to which she quickly responded, “No I don’t. You just need to be a notary and I will pay the $25 for you to become one. I want you to marry us!” The experience was memorable and affirming.

Another time a good friend asked me to do some speaking that I felt was out of my comfort zone. “Are you sure? I’ve never done anything like that before!” I quickly countered. “I wouldn’t be asking you if I wasn’t sure” was the reply. I had a wonderful time and met some amazing people. The Holy One used me in ways I never expected. The day was a grace and a blessing.  

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Many times in yoga class, an opportunity is given to try something that may be out of our comfort zone. It is so easy for the mind to say, “Oh no, I cannot do that. And not only can I not do it today, I will NEVER be able to do that!” Perhaps that is true, due to injuries or personal structure, and it is certainly prudent to honor our bodies and not push them beyond where they can go. However, if it is possible to just hold a “yes” in your mind, then there is space to try, ways to get the ego out of the way with all of its mighty holds on us and open our bodies and our minds to new possibilities. My body can do things now it couldn’t even imagine a decade ago.

Even writing this column was the result of a good friend offering me this venue. “I’m not sure,” I wavered, excuse after excuse coming out of my mouth. She took all the stumbling blocks out of my way and here I am still writing it and loving it. The first writer’s conference I attended was the result of a nudge and “just saying yes” to that nudge. It was one of the most profound weeks of my life.

After winning the Super Bowl, New Orleans’ Saints quarterback, Drew Brees agreed to do a Dove for Men commercial. His acting debut involves taking a shower and being happy and spontaneous, free enough to sing in the shower. When interviewed about this he said that the experience had pushed him right out of his comfort zone and that he had a great time! Why not? Just say yes!

I am not proposing some kind of co-dependent, addictive style of living in which we do not know our boundaries or our limitations. It is important to know when to say no and why we say no. It is important to understand our underlying motives and intentions and to be conscious of them. I am advocating for something very different, which is the paradoxical edge to proper boundaries and limits. When we are clear about our limits and boundaries, we are free, indeed, to say a holy “Yes!” when we are offered the right opportunity. We are free to try new things in new ways and to trust in the process that the Holy Spirit designs for us. We are free to “just say yes” to God’s nudgings.

The Gospel is full of people who learn to “just say yes” to life. In fact, it may be one of the underlying messages of scripture. Learn how to discern the promptings of the Spirit, listen for the voice of God, and just say yes. Abraham and Sara said yes. Samuel said yes. Mary said yes. Jesus said yes. The disciples said yes. The woman at the healing pool learned to say yes after a life time of no, the disciples put the nets down one more time, the man was willing to be dropped through the roof of a house. I am trying to learn to say more yeses. Will you join me? How are you being called out of your comfort zone? Can you discern where you need to say yes?



©2010 Amy Sander Montanez, D. Min.